Pastoral Note - 4th November

Last Tuesday I attended ‘Cement’, a small group gathering organized by the Friday cell group leaders to challenge some of their regulars to be the ‘cement’ that binds and grows the Friday cell group ministry. Cell group leadership is tough and lonely and sometimes a thankless ministry. ‘Cement’ was all about sharing the needs of our Friday leaders and regulars to be partners in growing God’s people together on Friday night. I was deeply moved as I heard some of our Friday leaders share their struggles, challenges and joys of ministry this year – and their heartfelt appeal for others to be the ‘cement’ in the ministry with them.

So often we come to cell group looking only to receive, to be fed, to be taught, to be listened to, to be comforted, to be encouraged. What we often forget is that we’re not just there to receive, but to also give, to also love. You can’t say you love God, or that you know the love of God, when there’s no evident love for those who “church” with you (1 John. 3:16-19). Love we’re told is expressed not just in words, but in action and truth i.e. acting rightly towards those around you.

It’s the responsibility of all God’s people to practically and actually love people when we gather, not just the responsibilities of our leaders. Taking an interest in people, making them feel welcomed, following up those who aren’t around, finding out people’s prayer points and needs, sharing your story and needs with others, practically helping out when you meet, offering to help and asking where you can serve when you meet … they’re all expressions of love that we are all called to. It’s not just our leaders who are called to love, but all God’s people when we gather. As one of our Friday cell group leaders put it, ‘by ourselves we can’t be the cement that binds and grows people on Friday nights. There’s not enough cement to bind and grow people - you guys need to be part of the cement that does it.’

Imagine a cell group where everyone came only thinking of themselves. Imagine a church where everyone came only thinking of themselves. It’s not the kind of church Jesus had in mind, and I’m quite sure that it’s not a church he’s saved or gathered. Those who really know the grace and love of God, will show grace and love. If the one who loved us and died for us, to save us and gather us is at the centre of our gathering whether on Sunday or any other day, then when we meet, we should come with a heart to serve, to love, to give, to reach out, to bless, to comfort, to listen, to encourage, to make a difference in someone’s life. You lay down your life to love and serve others whenever you meet, because Jesus first laid down his life to love and serve you. As he has loved you, so love others when you gather in your cell groups. We need more of your ‘cement’ if we’re to grow this ‘church’.